We can become anything, say anything, do anything to get our current guy marry us, even if he’s not the one we’ve been hoping for – simply, so we can have a baby! And for most of us, like we look more ‘complete’ to the public eye if we’re married or at least was asked to be married once upon a time.

If it turns more than one baby, then the man also wants more, but we just really want to have a baby and will discard you instantly, especially if we see signs of lousy hubby, lousy new dad – that’s all, don’t take it personally, lols 🙂

Most of us really don’t want to it be known or say we’re unmarried pass 27+yo. So there you go – The unknown raw truth!

We do awaken sooner and later and realized yup he really was not the one and since we can now say, “I was not a spinster, I was married and I have a child/children” – These make us project a complete image and a complete female to the public eye.

Hard Lesson: Marry only for true love for that person, can have baby or not, doesn’t matter. Marry only if you honestly feel you can be with this person when kids are grown and gone. Marry only this person if you feel you’ll be happiest doing so many tasks or activities with this person, with our without kids. Do you see yourself growing old with him, his character especially? These only possible with true love.💕